Ideas on leadership, emotional intelligence, and workplace behaviour.
Not Every Emotion Needs a Reaction We cannot always control what we feel. But emotional intelligence often shows up in what we choose to do with that feeling. A difficult email arrives. Someone says something that irritates you. A colleague challenges your opinion. You feel misunderstood, criticised, dismissed, or simply frustrated. The emotion can appear […]
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As AI Gets Smarter, Human Skills Matter More AI is changing how we work. But as technology becomes more capable, the skills that make us distinctly human may become even more valuable. AI can analyse information, generate ideas, automate tasks, create content, identify patterns, and help us work faster than before. And its capabilities will […]
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Not Every Performance Problem Is a People Problem When performance falls short, the easiest conclusion is often that the person is the problem. But sometimes, the problem sits around them. When an employee struggles to perform, familiar explanations appear quickly: They are not capable enough.They lack motivation.They need more training.They are simply not performing. Sometimes […]
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Change is rarely experienced as a process alone. It is experienced through uncertainty, emotion, trust, and what people believe they may gain or lose. Change is constant in organisations. Systems change. Structures evolve. Responsibilities shift. Leaders change. New ways of working are introduced. And when employees hesitate, question, or struggle, we often give it a […]
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Culture is not defined only by the values written on a wall. It is shaped by what people experience every day. Most organisations can describe the culture they want to create. Integrity. Respect. Collaboration. Accountability. Innovation. People First. These values may appear in presentations, policies, induction programmes, websites, and office walls. But employees rarely judge […]
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Training Is Not Learning Why Does Knowing Something Rarely Change Behaviour? Real learning begins when knowledge moves beyond the training room and starts changing how people think, act, and perform. A training session ends. The feedback is positive; participants enjoyed the session, and perhaps everyone even passed the assessment. A week later, people return to […]
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The Four Domains of Emotional Intelligence Ask ten people to define emotional intelligence and nine will say some version of “being good with feelings” or “staying calm under pressure.” Both are true, and both miss the point. EI isn’t one skill. It’s four distinct ones, and most people are strong in one or two and […]
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Reading the Room – The Science of Social Awareness at Work A colleague once told me about the exact moment she knew a project was doomed. It wasn’t in the status report. It was three minutes into a kickoff meeting, when the sponsor said “this all sounds great” while his arms were crossed and his […]
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Psychological Safety The Invisible Foundation of High-Performing Teams Ask any manager what makes a great team, and you’ll hear the usual answers: talent, clear goals, strong leadership. Rarely do you hear the real answer, the one Google spent two years and a project called Aristotle trying to prove: teams don’t perform because of who is […]
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The Loudest Person in the Room Is Rarely the Most Powerful Power isn’t measured by volume. It isn’t proven through intimidation. And it certainly isn’t earned by humiliating others. Yet in most workplaces, we’ve been trained to believe otherwise. We equate the loudest voice in the meeting with the strongest leader. We mistake dominance for […]
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Feedback is a skill – why most people get it wrong We talk about feedback constantly. But when was the last time someone actually taught you how to give it? Think about the last time someone gave you feedback. How did it feel? Did it make you want to improve, or did it make you […]
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Self-Awareness: The Skill No One Trains You For Growth begins where honesty begins. We are trained to acquire skills. 📧 How to write emails.💻 How to use software.📊 How to manage performance.🎤 How to present in meetings. But almost no one trains us to understand ourselves. And yet, self-awareness is the foundation of every other […]
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